Nesting

mommy and baby holding hands

I originally posted this on Babies.com Nesting. The obsessive, often impulsive, stage of maternity that brings about the uncontrollable urge to clean ones house beyond all necessary means, in preparation for a new baby. While pregnant, I never entered this stage. In fact, I was quite the opposite. I still have visions of me laying exhausted on the couch, watching television, with a bowl of cereal propped up on my jumbo belly, wearing the same pajamas for 3 days in a row while surrounded by a {…Read More…}

The Couple in the Matching Track Suits

couple-feat

Every day, at about 1:00pm, I load Lil W and his minkie {blanket} into the car and we go on a drive until he falls asleep for his nap.  Then I carefully remove him from his car seat and bring him inside.  Not following this routine results in no nap until about 5:00pm, which means he doesn’t go to bed until 11:00pm.  I’ve tried cutting out the nap all together, but that only resulted in the world’s most unhappy toddler {and Momma}. No nap isn’t pretty. And it certainly {…Read More…}

In an Instant

Kristen Duke Photography

{via} In an instant. That’s how life goes when you become a parent. One instant you’re laying in bed with your husband, your toddler sleeping soundly in between you both, you glance over, your eyes meet, he gives a half smile and you know exactly what his half smile and sparkling eyes are saying in that moment, because you feel the same way: There’s no where I’d rather be right now. A mere instant later, your baby awakens from his deep sleep with hysterical cries and {…Read More…}

Sick Day

sick day

Canceled plans. + Sniffles. + Runny nose. + Darth Vader breathing. = A full day of couch cuddling with Momma.

French Fry

french fry stuck in nose

If you follow my rants on facebook, then you may remember my desperate plea for guidance regarding the unknown object stuck way back in Lil W’s nose last weekend.  I knew this day would come eventually, especially considering his obsession with his nostrils.  But I always assumed I would find it kinda cute or comical when he accidentally got a foreign object stuck in there. It wasn’t funny. Or cute. And I was a wreck. I think the part that had me worried the most, {…Read More…}

My Aha! Moment: Finding Balance

ah-ha moment

I was watching Oprah. Which, I’m sure, is when 80% of the World experiences their Aha! moment. It was that episode from her final season where she shows the guests who have impacted her most over the years. One guest stuck out to me more than the others. She was interviewing a mother who had accidentally forgotten her child in the car on a hot summer day. Her daughter died.  Over a thousand miles away, in Australia, another mother was watching the show. And it {…Read More…}

In Hindsight

Baby W

{c/o KD Photography} I try to be the kind of person who is as positive as possible. I try to focus on looking forward, rather than dwelling on the past. I try to tell myself things happen for a reason, and if I had it to do all over again, I wouldn’t change a thing. But I also like to be realistic. And the reality is, if I could go back, to the day I brought Baby W home from the hospital, (or probably even {…Read More…}

Lady With the Glasses

scrunch face

Do we even risk it? My Mom asked as we pulled out of the shopping center. It was nearly noon. We were both hungry and anxious to try the infamous Olas taco place around the corner from the outlets. I turned back and looked at Lil W in his car seat. Me: Well, he’s been good so far. Mom: Yeah, but do we push our luck? Me: I’m pretty hungry, and I could go for a crunchy taco. Even as I said it, I knew no {…Read More…}

Fleeting Moments

Nap time. It’s fleeting around these parts. Every day it becomes a bit less consistent, and I realize it’s only a matter of time before it stops all together. Like clock work, half way through his nap, Baby W wakes up crying and looking around the room for his Momma. He spots me, whines until I curl up next to him, and then closes his eyes, usually puts his arm or leg over me and drifts back to sleep.  He always makes sure some part of {…Read More…}

Dear Two Year Old Baby W

Dear Baby W, Our days have been way too hot for you to take your naps upstairs in your race car bed, so you have been snoozing on the couch while I work away in the next room. Today you woke up early, in one of those inconsolable bits of hysterical cries. In fact, you wake up crying from your naps a lot. It’s kinda your thing. And after two years, you think I’d be used to it by now. But I’m not. It still twists my {…Read More…}

Dreading Bedtime

Baby W works on mastering his pouty face–he has become an expert. Today’s post inspired by Casey’s touching words yesterday. Every night, and I mean every night for the last two years, at around 10 pm I start to dread my impeding bedtime. Because I know that going to bed means another evening of unrest. Of getting kicked in the face 20 or so times. Of stopping a sleep-walking baby from roaming throughout the house. Of tucking and re-tucking him in over a dozen times. {…Read More…}

Ski Ball, Baby W Style

These pictures are merely one of a million reasons why you never turn your back on your kid for one.single.second while enduring a trip to Chucke Cheese.

I Want to Be Your Super Mom

I want to be your Super Mom. I want to be the Momma who finds the perfect balance between being your parent and being your friend. I want to be the Momma who says yes when you ask me to go out and jump on the trampoline, or to build sand castles with you at the beach, or get my hair wet at the pool, or Ooo and Ahhh over your latest magic trick. I want to be the Momma who throws the ball around {…Read More…}

My Typical Day

Just Another Day Some have wondered what my typical day looks like.When I find the time to blog,how I keep Baby W busy,when {or rather, if} I exercise. So I have put together an outline of my day.It’s super glamorous, let me tell ya.No really, please don’t expect much.And yes, I completely realize that many of my parenting methods are notby.the.book.Namely, Baby W’s sleep habits and his bottle dependency.But if there’s anything I have learned as a parent,it’s that sometimes you just have to do what {…Read More…}

How To Tire an Energetic Toddler

I don’t enjoy saying NO, STOP and DON’T all day long. And I really don’t want to be that Mom.. The one who develops my sons image of this world in terms of all the things he “can’t” do. But it takes a lot of effort, energy and patience to stay positive as a parent. Three qualities that seem to be on short supply since the moment I earned the “Mom” label. So I have had to improvise, to find some tricks that help me stay {…Read More…}

Happy Momma’s Day to my Wife {love Hubby and Baby W}

Dear Wifey, I’m taking over your blog today as big-mr-dad (get it?)because afterall, you shouldn’t have to post something on mother’s day…right? First,  I want to say Happy Mother’s day to the LMM readers and say thank you.  I am continually impressed with mommy bloggers as I have also become quite entertained from reading some of your blogs and nearly all of the comments you leave on LMM.  Ashley pours her heart and soul into raising our son and feels equally passionate about sharing her experiences of mommyhood.  Comments have {…Read More…}

Mommy Guilt: One momma’s rant

Mommy Guilt.Let’s talk about that for a minute, okay. Like how I seriously despise going to the park.But for some reason, admitting this fact gives me guilt.As if admittance to my lack of excitement to have sand in my shoes,get stuck in the tube slide, and experience sweat dripping down my backsomehow makes me a bad mom. And then there’s the other kind of guilt.The guilt I feel when I’m having a bad day.Like yesterday. Yesterday Baby W misbehaved in more ways than I can {…Read More…}

Mommy Advice That Makes Me Want to Scream

Taking Mommy advice is a tricky thing.It seems I’m one of those Momma’s who likes to give,but often doesn’t want to hear it. Don’t get me wrong,I’ll take any tips or hints or tricks that might actually get my toddler to sleep through the night at least once in his 21 months on this Earth. And its not that I don’t want to hear about what has worked for other Momma’s, because trust me, I actually do. It’s just that sometimes,the advice I hearmakes me {…Read More…}

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